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Rupture and Repair in Relationships – The Gottman Method

Rupture and Repair in Relationships – The Gottman Method

Conflict is a natural part of any relationship. How couples handle these moments of "rupture"—when disconnection or tension arises—and their efforts at "repair" can determine the resilience and depth of their bond. Dr. John Gottman, a prominent relationship expert, developed the concept of “rupture and repair” as a cornerstone of the Gottman Method for couples therapy, highlighting how crucial these processes are for long-term relationship health.

The True Cost of Anger: Why Investing in Anger Management is Priceless

When we consider the price of professional anger management support, it’s crucial to ask ourselves: What has my anger already cost me? Often, when someone feels triggered by our fees, it is because they’re in a state of distress, having already suffered losses—financially, emotionally, and socially—due to their anger.

The Toxic Link of Alcohol and Anger: Looking at the Neural Impact and Consequences

The Toxic Link of Alcohol and Anger: Looking at the Neural Impact and Consequences

Life is pretty full on and we can encounter stressors from all walks of life – relationship conflicts, work-related demands, parental pressures, societal frustrations and world crises. It seems to come from every angle, whether that’s because we’re made more aware of everything persistently, or whether it’s not so much the stress itself, but how we carry it.

The underestimated role of fathers in childhood

The underestimated role of fathers in childhood

Discover the underestimated impact of fathers on childhood development. Explore how paternal engagement during pregnancy and early childhood shapes emotional and physical well-being. Learn about the long-term effects of absent fathers and the crucial role they play in children's growth. Unveil the influence of fathers on academic success, self-esteem, and relationship dynamics. Gain insights into role modelling healthy behaviours and fostering positive family dynamics. Dive into the research and explore the significance of fathers as lifelong mentors.

Unleash Emotional Freedom

Unleash Emotional Freedom: How Anger Holds You Back and How Anger Management Can Set You Free

Discover the path to Emotional Liberation in our latest blog: "Unleash Emotional Freedom: How Anger Holds You Back and How Anger Management Can Set You Free." If you've ever felt the impact of uncontrolled anger on your relationships, health, or career, you're not alone. Learn how anger can hinder your personal and professional growth and explore effective ways to address and manage it. Dive into the damaging effects of anger on relationships, health, and career, and discover how participating in...

Unveiling the Mysteries of Love Languages

Unveiling the Mysteries of Love Languages: A Mental Health Expert’s Guide for Valentine’s Day Bliss

Unlock the secrets of love languages and foster deeper connections this Valentine's Day with insights from a mental health expert. Dive into the Five Love Languages, discover the Orange Peel Theory, and challenge biases to embrace authentic love. Learn how to navigate relationship expectations, celebrate imperfections, and cultivate vulnerability for a more fulfilling connection. Prioritize emotional well-being and share the love this Valentine's Day!

Unwrap the Fun, Not the Fuss: A Playful Guide to a Drama-Free Christmas

The holiday season is a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration. It’s the perfect occasion to create lasting memories with your loved ones. However, with the hustle and bustle of Christmas preparations, it’s easy to get caught up in the stress and lose sight of what truly matters.

Anger Awareness Week 2023: How to Disconnect from the World’s Chaos in the Middle of Our Daily Routine

In the fast-paced world we live in, it’s easy to get overwhelmed by stress and become prone to anger, anxiety, depression, and irritability. The constant flow of information, the demands of our daily routines, and the challenges we face can leave us feeling stuck, overwhelmed and disempowered. However, Anger Awareness Week 2023 encourages us to find moments to disconnect from over stimulation, relieve stress, and choose a mindset that is more positive for ourselves and our communities. While we may...

The Psychology of Power in Relationships

The Psychology of Power in Relationships: Maintaining Balance for a Fulfilling Connection

Short on time? Take a moment to give the audio recording of this blog post a quick listen. Power, a nuanced and intriguing phenomenon, has been a subject of fascination for psychologists across the ages. When it comes to personal and intimate relationships, power manifests as the ability to influence or control another person’s behaviour, […]

The Wisdom of Emotions How Feelings Shape Our Lives

The Wisdom of Emotions: How Feelings Shape Our Lives

Explore the profound role of emotions in our lives, discover how they guide our decisions, relationships, and personal growth. Learn how emotions can be your allies in understanding yourself and others.

Assertiveness

Mastering Assertiveness: Why It’s Vital for Success and Relationships

Explore the profound role of emotions in our lives, discover how they guide our decisions, relationships, and personal growth. Learn how emotions can be your allies in understanding yourself and others.

Living a Meaningful Life with Passion and Purpose

Living a Meaningful Life with Passion and Purpose

Living a meaningful life with passion and purpose is about finding deep fulfillment and satisfaction in your existence by aligning your actions, values, and goals with what truly matters to you.

Cultivating Humility: The Key to Personal Growth and Harmonious Relationships in Modern Life

The War is Over: Embracing Self-Compassion to cultivate Inner Peace

In a world where conflict and division seem prevalent, it is crucial to recognise that the war within ourselves can be just as destructive as any external conflict.

Cultivating Humility

Cultivating Humility: The Key to Personal Growth and Harmonious Relationships in Modern Life

Short on time? Take a moment to give the audio recording of this blog post a quick listen. In the fast-paced and often competitive world we live in today, humility might be perceived as an undervalued virtue. However, its importance remains ever-present, acting as a moral compass in our personal and professional lives. Humility is […]

Embracing Gratitude: A Pathway to Happiness

In our quest for happiness, we often overlook the power of gratitude. By embracing gratitude, we can shift our focus from what is lacking in our lives to what we already have and appreciate.

Managing the Fear of Rejection and Abandonment

Managing the Fear of Rejection and Abandonment: Strategies for Building Healthy Connections and Self-Acceptance

People fear rejection and abandonment because there are fundamental human needs for social connection and belonging. The fear of rejection stems from the fear of being excluded, judged, or not accepted by others.

Unlocking the Power of Deep Listening: Enhance Relationships and Well-being

Unlocking the Power of Deep Listening: Enhance Relationships and Well-being

Short on time? Take a moment to give the audio recording of this blog post a quick listen. In today’s fast-paced world, we are often too busy to listen deeply to others or even to ourselves. We are constantly bombarded with distractions and have become accustomed to multitasking and rapid communication. However, deep listening […]

Managing Anger for Stronger Relationships

Managing Anger for Stronger Relationships: Benefits of Anger Management Programmes

Short on time? Take a moment to give the audio recording of this blog post a quick listen. Anger is a natural human emotion that a variety of factors can trigger. However, if not properly managed, it can really harm one’s personal and professional relationships and impact our overall sense of well-being. If you […]

Exploring the Distinction between Intimacy and Love

Exploring the Distinction between Intimacy and Love

In the realm of human relationships, the terms “intimacy” and “love” are often used interchangeably....

Love can hurt

Love can hurt!

Whilst that can be a lovely thought and an opportunity to make the best of a day with declarations of love, let’s be sure you don’t skip over the small gestures that matter